As the saying goes, “the face reflects the heart.” A person’s heart will gradually show on their face.
Honesty and kindness will make a person gentle, while cunning and harshness will make a person sharp-tongued.
A good face is gentle, with compassionate eyes, and looks easy to get along with.
Such people have a certain magnetic field that unconsciously influences others and wins their trust and support.
If you want a good face, you need these four things!
Take care of your eyes: learn to observe people and distinguish between close and distant relationships.
Judging people is difficult! Their outward attitude does not necessarily reflect their inner attitude.
When we judge a person, we should not listen to what they say, but look at what they do; it is not important whether they speak well or badly, but whether they are good or bad inside!
When you discover that someone acts one way in front of you and another way behind your back, don’t cling to them;
when you see through someone’s insincerity and manipulation, don’t get close to them!
When making friends, seek genuine hearts; when judging people, assess their character!
Birds of a feather flock together; people of the same kind gather in groups. Only by associating with the right people can you accelerate your growth!
Take care of your ears: listen more and talk less, and think carefully before you speak.
People have two ears, two hands, and one mouth!
This is essentially telling us to listen more, act more, and speak less.
Rather than seeking trust through words, demonstrate your character through actions; rather than boasting about your strengths with your mouth, use your ears to learn more!
Words can hurt people, so don’t speak without restraint; words can cause trouble, so be cautious with your speech.
Sometimes the more we speak, the more we reveal, and those who only use words may be seen as superficial.
Instead, listen and act—use listening to cultivate yourself, and use actions to prove yourself!
Take care of your mouth: Speak with restraint to avoid disaster and misfortune.
Speaking harsh words breeds hatred; speaking too harshly invites trouble.
Some people open their mouths to spew vulgarities, speak in a confrontational manner, and resort to complaining and cursing when faced with issues!
Such behavior only drives those close to them away and causes those who value others to grow weary.
A mouth that harms relationships also harms one’s own fortune.
Be a person who knows how to speak well—encouragement brings warmth, and understanding brings comfort.
Cultivate a kind tongue, speak words of warmth, and bring joy to others—that is true grace!
Cultivate a healthy mind: A pure mind brings endless blessings.
To have a good facial appearance, you must have a good heart.
How to cultivate a good heart?
Be kind to others and bring warmth to them; help others in need and provide them with opportunities.
Do not harbor ill will; keep your heart pure. Maintain a balanced mindset and cultivate optimism and a broad-minded attitude.
As your heart grows better, so will your facial appearance.
The more open-minded you are, the more you smile; the kinder you are, the more compassionate your facial features become; the more sincere your heart, the clearer your gaze!
By changing your inner character, you reduce your worries, and blessings will follow; with a good mindset, your life will improve!
Where does good feng shui come from?
It comes from knowing when to let go and avoid hurting others; from being a good listener and slowly refining yourself; from speaking kindly and being generous; and from having a pure heart and living a life without regret!
If you cultivate these four qualities, you will find that as you get older, your appearance will improve,
and you will enjoy a lifetime of good fortune!
